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enchantressXofsouls Figment of a Figment

Joined: 26 Jan 2008 Posts: 13 Location: Hoquiam, WA, USA
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Posted: Wed Feb 06, 2008 12:47 pm Post subject: Stupid ex-boyfriends |
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Do you have one? I sure do. I have at least 2 or 3. I don't really date much, but when I do, it's normally a long-term relationship. My shortest relationship has been 1 month.
Anyway, there's this guy. He's 2 years older than me, and we had been dating for a little more than a month, then he dumped me. I really cared about me, and this had been the first time I've actually been 'dumped.' But I have been cheated on. It sucks. But back to the idiot who dumped me. He had someone else do it for him, and then when I asked him why he dumped me, all he said was "I have to go." and I know that that's a lie because he doesn't really do anything after school. I have cried more in the past 3 days than in the past year. I deserve to know why he broke up with me, don't I? *sigh* I don't think that anybody cares about this stupid rant.Blah. I am really depressed. _________________
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ShadowFang Typewriter

Joined: 24 Aug 2006 Posts: 408 Location: The World That Never Was/Amestris? Dunno if you can be in two worlds at once...
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Posted: Wed Feb 06, 2008 1:46 pm Post subject: |
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MARELLE! You should be happy NOW! You're going out with Rees! ^^ Feel better! _________________ I....I got a MySpace......OMG!
http://www.myspace.com/shadowfang2011
It's a miracle! lol |
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enchantressXofsouls Figment of a Figment

Joined: 26 Jan 2008 Posts: 13 Location: Hoquiam, WA, USA
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Posted: Wed Feb 06, 2008 6:34 pm Post subject: |
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JAMI!!SHUT UP!!!I DON'T WANT PEOPLE TO KNOW ABOUT IT!!jeez. So troublesome...XD _________________
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Dare To Dream Figment of a Figment
Joined: 28 Dec 2007 Posts: 96 Location: Australia
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Posted: Thu Feb 07, 2008 12:07 am Post subject: |
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Hun 2 or 3 jerks you're doing well for me every single guy I've ever dated *counts on fingers and needs extra hand* well there are lots of them. I have really bad taste in men. In my experience men 2 years older than you are a bad idea Michael was 2 years older than me and well... anyway. You do deserve an explanation, but boys were never the most sensitive beings (no offense guys!).
So I here you've got a new guy, Rees? Do tell! _________________
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ArcT Superior Figment

Joined: 22 Jan 2007 Posts: 238 Location: Sheffield, UK
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Posted: Thu Feb 07, 2008 1:06 am Post subject: |
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Some guys, surprisingly enough, are actually nice And are on the receiving end of dumpage... Although I have to admit I've never broken up with a guy. _________________ And you can't fight the tears that ain't coming
Or the moment of truth in your lies
When everything seems like the movies
Yeah you bleed just to know you're alive
And I don't want the world to see me
'Cause I don't think that they'd understand
When everything's made to be broken
I just want you to know who I am |
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enchantressXofsouls Figment of a Figment

Joined: 26 Jan 2008 Posts: 13 Location: Hoquiam, WA, USA
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Posted: Thu Feb 07, 2008 2:21 pm Post subject: |
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Well, I've broken up with a few guys, but then again, I'm only 14. This has been the first time I've ever been dumped, so I was really upset. But stupid John sent me a message on GaiaOnline, and apparently it was because he's a junior in high school, and he wants to go to Harvard or Yale and be a doctor, and he didn't want to distract himself by worrying about me all the time. I do need to be worried about sometimes, but seriously. We still have a year until he has to leave for college, so why now? And Rees is my best friend's cousin, and he lives in Utah, and he asked me out. Seriously, when guys heard that I was single, I have gotten more people asking me out than in my whole life. arg. So aggravating. And I'm crying again. Just as soon as I thought that I wouldn't cry over John again, he does something like this. _________________
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Dare To Dream Figment of a Figment
Joined: 28 Dec 2007 Posts: 96 Location: Australia
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Posted: Sat Feb 09, 2008 12:52 am Post subject: |
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Think of it this way, the guy is a jerk, much better find out now rather than spending a year with then have him tell you he has to concentrate on his studies or you go for a surprise visit and find another chick in his bed and tells you "we're just friends" grr! I'm going to get myself aggravated soon.
I always like to look on the bright side of break ups, my motto "every relationship that goes bad brings me closer to the one that's just right". Another thing, I know you can't just make yourself stop crying, but I learned a long time ago that crying over boys is just another relationship and one you don't want to have, screws up your makeup too  _________________
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enchantressXofsouls Figment of a Figment

Joined: 26 Jan 2008 Posts: 13 Location: Hoquiam, WA, USA
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Posted: Sat Feb 09, 2008 7:44 am Post subject: |
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Yeah. I think that I have honestly gotten over him. He talked to me yesterday after school, but only because I demanded to know the 'truth'. My friend lynette is his friend too, and she told me the real reason why he dumped me. Apparently I was too 'obsessed' YEAH RIGHT! I am not obsessed with anything but anime, video games, and Roleplaying! I have never been obsessed about a guy before. John is such an ass. But when a bunch of guys heard that I was single, ((not really, I'm dating Rees)) I had a lot of people asking me out. Rees was the first person to ask me, and I wasn't sure, because I had just gotten dumped by John. But I said yes eventually. And now I feel better. And I've come to realize with the help of my friends Jami, Lex, and Annika, and Rees, that he's not worth it. When I talked to John, he said "go ahead. Hate me. It's not like I care" but that is not what I cried about. I cried about me yelling at him, even though he deserved it. When my parents were still together, they were always fighting and yelling at each other, so I hate yelling at people. But if someone messes with one of my friends, they're gonna get their asses kicked. John? Who cares? _________________
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The Bee Book Keeper

Joined: 15 Dec 2007 Posts: 1162 Location: In my room eating all the smarties!
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Posted: Sat Feb 09, 2008 7:49 am Post subject: |
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Way to go! (Has never been in a relationship unless you count Kindergarten ) _________________ ~Michelle The Bee
If life is a highway I was drunk at the wheel. (Relient K) |
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enchantressXofsouls Figment of a Figment

Joined: 26 Jan 2008 Posts: 13 Location: Hoquiam, WA, USA
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Posted: Sat Feb 09, 2008 1:43 pm Post subject: |
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Yeah. It was really hard, though. He sent me a message on gaia the day before, and I demanded to know why, and he said he would talk to me. That whole day I was terrified. And I was a little upset when he said he didn't care if I hated him. Oh, and he bleached his hair blond, so now he looks like a really fat tooth pick with a hat on. XD _________________
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Dare To Dream Figment of a Figment
Joined: 28 Dec 2007 Posts: 96 Location: Australia
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Posted: Sat Feb 09, 2008 6:30 pm Post subject: |
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Right on! *insert naughty word here* him!
hehe fat toothpick, oh gosh I hope my hair does make me look like that, except I'd be a normal sized to toothpick and it's just naturally that colour so it's not my fault! *runs off crying* *come back several minutes later* wait a minute... _________________
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enchantressXofsouls Figment of a Figment

Joined: 26 Jan 2008 Posts: 13 Location: Hoquiam, WA, USA
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Posted: Sat Feb 09, 2008 6:34 pm Post subject: |
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Wait....sorry, I meant to say Q-tip. I don't know why, but I always get those mixed up. It makes me really mad. And don't worry, I highly doubt that you look like a toothpick. John only looks like a q-tip because his natural hair color is dark brown, so it looks really bad. Yeah. Screw him. _________________
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Dare To Dream Figment of a Figment
Joined: 28 Dec 2007 Posts: 96 Location: Australia
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Posted: Sat Feb 09, 2008 6:37 pm Post subject: |
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Oh, well that's good! Haha yay I'm not a toothpick, I'm sure many people would disagree with me there but oh well *shrugs* _________________
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enchantressXofsouls Figment of a Figment

Joined: 26 Jan 2008 Posts: 13 Location: Hoquiam, WA, USA
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Posted: Sat Feb 09, 2008 6:39 pm Post subject: |
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Hehe, it's alright. My mom says that I need to lose weight, but then all my friends say that I am fine. It's really stupid and confusing. _________________
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Dare To Dream Figment of a Figment
Joined: 28 Dec 2007 Posts: 96 Location: Australia
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Posted: Sat Feb 09, 2008 6:42 pm Post subject: |
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I don't think anyone would tell me to lose weight and your mum shouldn't say stuff like that, no offense to her or you. I'm sure it's not true, I mean obviously if your friends disagree it's not a health issue and since it's not she should leave you be.
Good thing we're in rambling because we've gone completely off topic, YAY! _________________
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